May 2003

Dear Friends,

As I write the letter this month it is Easter Tuesday, the children have returned to school and life is trying to settle back to normal after Easter. I must profess though to feeling a little weary and not quite able to get into the daily swing of things. I guess if I don’t feel a little tired after Easter then I never will!

Back in March I enjoyed a few days ‘retreat’ down in Devon having a ’12,000 Mile Service’. The week is part of a programme offered by the Society of Martha and Mary who have a specific ministry to clergy, including the ability to offer support to clergy who are going through difficult times.

When you look at the ages of clergy in the obituaries in Church Times you may wonder if any suffer from stress related troubles, well you can be assured many do. The church has changed a lot in the past 2 decades and the responsibilities of the clergy have increased disproportionately. They are not unique in this as we all live in a more pressured world where high expectations are underlined with a willingness to take legal action.

I could get on my high horse here and talk at length about the problems we are creating in today’s society, suffice to say Jesus and his crucifixion and resurrection are all about love and forgiveness, not about fulfilling rules and retribution.

What I would like to underline though is the importance of taking care of ourselves. I would guess Jesus lived under a good deal of stress, the expectations of people and the desire by leaders to see him off. His main way of responding was by spending time with God. How often do we read in the gospels that Jesus went away by himself to a quiet place to pray?

It is quite clear that the clinical effects of stress can be proved, the effects often not seen for several years. Running on adrenaline and breathing badly affect heart and kidneys over time. We may not be able to avoid stress, but we can train ourselves to quieten down and slow down. We tend to think Eastern meditation has cornered this market, but there is a strong Christian tradition for meditation and now the usefulness can be explained medically. To sit quietly for 10 to 30 minutes a day, slowing you breathing and concentrating on God, through music, a bible verse or a prayer is good for you. Not just because you are in God’s presence, but also because you are letting go for a while.

Maybe I’m preaching to the converted, if not please try it, find a place you can sit still and invite God to spend the time with you. Life may never be the same again.

Yours in Christ

Rev. Nick Wells

p.s. May I thank everyone for the generous Easter Offering, this tradition is much appreciated.

AGM

Thanks to everyone who attended the church AGMs last month. There was a good turn out and the meeting reflected how the church is living day to day. The Faith Supper added to an enjoyable and useful evening.

As a result of the various elections the team of Church Wardens remains unaltered, they are Wilf Corkish, Peter Cory, Nigel Cretney and Trevor Singleton. Sylvia Lawrinson has replaced Maff Long as a Diocesan Synod representative, joining Colin Clague, Peter Cory, Elaine Cory and Nigel Cretney.

The PCC elections saw Joan Callister, Marial Callow and Hazel Johnson re-elected and they are joined by two newly elected members – Amanda Kimberley and Elaine Litherland. This means we say good bye (for now) to Mildred Cooper, Margaret Kinley, June O’Neil and Christine Sanders.

We thank all those who have accepted positions of responsibility for the coming months and especially thank those who have served us so faithfully in the past but have stood down this year for whatever reason.

MOTHERS UNION


Pat Corrin and Eleanor Shimmin gave us a very interesting afternoon at our first meeting in April. Pat read stories/poems and Eleanor complemented them in song. We held a service in Church for Holy Week. We held our A.G.M. on 29th April when Mildred Cooper, our long standing Enrolling Officer, stood down. We had a surprise party for Mildred with various guests including Canon & Dorothy Baggaley, Canon Baggaley had appointed Mildred 17 years ago. Various tributes were made and gifts where presented to Mildred. The Vicar announced that Sylvia Lawrinson will be the new Branch Leader and Christine Sanders is acting as her Deputy. The members had worked hard providing a buffet which included a celebration cake and decorating the hall with balloons and baskets of flowers.

Our World Wide President, Trish Heywood, will give the Address at our Festival in the Cathedral at 2.30 p.m. on 14th May.

Our next meeting is at 2.30 p.m. in the Parish Hall on 13th May.

LADIES FELLOWSHIP

This month we have enjoyed a slide show on “Birds in the Isle of Man” with Rene Kayes – we were surprised to find so many different birds literally on our doorsteps! For our second monthly meeting Marion Watterson demonstrated cake decorating. She decorated a cake for Easter and another one in the shape of a butterfly. She made it all look so easy! Marion then donated the cakes for a raffle and which raised money towards the Parish Hall Kitchen Refurbishment.

Our next meeting is our annual business meeting, which is to be held in the Parish Hall on 7th May, followed by a ‘party’.

KEY GROUPS

The weekly Key Groups are recommencing after Easter to follow a series looking at the Letter to the Galatians. This is a video based series produced by the makers of Alpha. This series will take us through to the summer and new group members a very welcome to join – see the weekly newssheet for venues or ring the Parish Office.

Names and telephone nos. of the group co-ordinators are:

Monday – Bev Wells Tel: 675797
Tuesday – Eric Foster Tel: 627425
Wednesday – Sylvia Lawrinson Tel: 627664

DIOCESAN YOUTH SYNOD

On Sunday 4th May 2003 we are hosting the Diocesan Youth Synod at St Peter’s. The Synod meet at 3pm in the Parish Hall and the agenda includes Links with the Church in Uganda, the National Youth Strategy and our Christian Heritage.

After tea in the Hall the Synod will be joined by a few other young people from the Island for a Youth Service, ‘He has Risen’ in St Peter’s to which everyone is very welcome. Music will be lead by a group specially got together including our own Music Group and drama by the Scripture Union schools team.

The DYS is an important initiative within the diocese and we hope you will feel able to support them.

11th MAY

On Sunday 11th May we will be joined by friends from the Arthur Stanley Lodge for Evening Prayer. They have been with us several times in the past and we look forward to them being with us.

PARISH CLERK

We are delighted to announce that Jane Cretney has accepted the position of Parish Clerk on a permanent basis. Jane has been covering the vacancy temporarily since last autumn and has ensured the new office was properly set up. Jane knows St Peter’s well and has a wealth of office and organisational experience.

Remember the Parish Office is open 5 days a week from 9.30am until12.30pm for callers, either in person or on the phone.



THE BISHOP AND MRS JONES

Palm Sunday was a very memorable day for many reasons, with the Confirmation Service, the dedication of the recent works and an opportunity to say thank you and farewell to the Bishop and Mrs Jones.

During the evening we expressed our thanks to everyone connected to the moving of the crosses and the creation of a toilet, although there is still some work to be done we are very thankful to all the contractors for their work.

We were also able to extend our best wishes to the Bishop and Mrs Jones and to present a card and monetary gift too. The Bishop has since written a letter of thanks and said

‘Joyce and I were particularly touched by the sentiments expressed at the reception … To discover a little later that you had also presented us with a cheque was so unexpected … please thank everyone for us and say what a privilege it has been to meet up from time to time at St Peter’s. Every good wish to you all for the future. Noel Sodor and Man


LEPROCY MISSION

Many thanks to all concerned – total collected £404.69.

KENYON’S AGM

The Annual General Meeting of Kenyon’s Café is on Tuesday 6th May at 7.30pm. The evening will include reports on the drop in centre and the election the committee and officers for the coming year. All are welcome.

CHAPTER COURT

This year's Chapter Court where the Church Wardens are sworn in as at Ballasalla on 20th May at 7.30pm. Although we do not expect everyone to turn out please do remember our Wardens that evening.

BRF NOTES

At the back of church near the book stand we have bible reading notes available. These are produced by the Bible Reading Fellowship and provide short bible passages with some additional reflections for daily reading. We hope the copies will all disappear and everyone will take advantage of these resources to assist in daily time with God.

NORTH M’BALE

John Coldwell and Lloyd Shipstone have recently been to visit our linked diocese in Uganda. Whilst there they were able to visit our linked parish of Bulegeni. For the past couple of years we have sent them donations from our charitable and missionary giving. John has just e-mailed to let us know that thanks partly to our gifts the building of their new church building has progressed. You may remember pictures of the foundations of the new church in Church last year, well now they have completed the walls and only need the roof to complete the building.

This is great news and we look forward to hearing of the completion of the project in the near future.

LENT LUNCHES

After a busy 6 weeks preparing and serving the weekly Lent Lunches in the Parish Hall, we are pleased to report a profit of £1,016.10. This year we are able to donate £800 towards the Parish Hall Kitchen Refurbishment Appeal, with the remainder going towards the Mothers’ Union Baptism Card and Gift Fund.

A special “thank-you”, from the Ladies to Mrs Gladys Gillatt who very kindly provided us all with very smart new aprons.

ROGATION SUNDAY

25th May this year is Rogation Sunday and as last year we will be holding a service at Ballakilmartin by the kind invitation of Laura and Harvey Briggs. The service will be close to the old Methodist Chapel and will be followed by a walk up to the old keeil. The EMUs are arranging a BBQ to follow and to help make an afternoon of it.

Last year we were blest with lovely weather and it was a special occasion. We can not guarantee the weather, but we can offer a wonderful occasion as we pray for the agricultural industry as the seeds are sown and the land prepared.

The service will be at 3pm and there will be no evening service that evening.

CHRISTMAS CARD COMPETITION

We had some lovely entries once again for the Christmas Card competition this year. On Easter Sunday we were pleased to announce the two winners as Lesley Callow and Andrew Haddock. The cards will be available from the end of the summer.

Thanks to everyone who entered and congratulations to the two winners who each received an Easter Egg and Certificate.

CHRISTIAN AID WEEK

11th to 18th May, 2003

If you can help with the door to door collections, there is a list at the back of church.

Any enquiries to Eric Foster or Mildred Cooper.

DEDICATION OF THE MANX CROSSES

The recent Confirmation Service provided the Lord Bishop with the opportunity, during his last official visit to St. Peter’s before his retirement, to dedicate a new and improved presentation of Manx Crosses, and toilet and nappy changing facilities incorporating a store room, new look porch and a soon to be put in place disabled access to the Church.

After the service the Vicar thanked everyone involved in the project but a special thank you must go to a small band of volunteers – Elaine, Dorothy, Trevor, Sylvia, Les and Jane – who together with our cleaner Thelma had the church looking so beautiful and so clean! Thank you.

PEOPLE FROM THE PAST

At this time of the year “football mania” seems to make itself prominent, what with the F.A. Cup Final coming shortly and the various European Cup and World Cup preliminary matches being shown on television frequently. You see and hear the media praising the merits of Michael Owen of Liverpool, David Beckham of Manchester United, Wayne Rooney of Everton etc.

But, I don’t suppose many will remember, but quite a number of you will have heard the saying of St. George’s Football Club here on the Island :- “ It’s a fine day and the Vicar has turned out”.

Well the Vicar in question was the Rev. W.C.Jordan, M.A., Vicar of St. George’s in the early 1900’s and below is a write up I have obtained:-

“The Rev.W.C.Jordan, M.A., who was inducted as Vicar of St. George’s, Douglas on November 16th, 1919, passed his boyhood in Birmingham, and was educated in the first place at King Edward’s School, Five-ways, in that city. He afterwards entered St. Johns College, Oxford and Wycliffe Hall, Oxford, graduating B.A. in 1909 and receiving his M.A. degree in 1913. He was ordained deacon in 1910 and priest in 1911 by the Bishop of Liverpool. Prior to being presented with the living of St. George’s, he was curate of All Saints, Stoneycroft (1910-1914), curate of Christ Church, Southport (1914-1915), and Vicar of Widnes (1915-1919). Mr. Jordan is a muscular Christian, and has earned a high reputation as an exponent of Association football. He played for Oxford University against Cambridge University, and was centre-forward for West Bromwich Albion in many cup-ties and league matches. He was one of the Albion team in the English Cup semi-final at Bolton in 1907. He has also played in several matches with League X1.’s of Wolverhampton Wanderers and Everton, and in the course of his career he has played for England in amateur International games against Ireland and France.”

Hence the call of St.George’s fans “It’s a fine day and the Vicar has turned out”.

So, how about it Onchan !!!

FROM THE REGISTERS

Baptisms

Hollie Glassey, Christopher Gautney, Rebecca Gautrey,
Paul Domingo, Thomas Gray, Kira Mathews, Charlotte Burns,
Katie Brawn, Elizabeth Shooter, Charlotte Trusselle,
Rupert Trusselle

Funerals

Harry Berry, Mitch Black, Herbert Chapman, Nancy Fargher, Audrey Hindley, Doreen Joyce, Elaine Keggin, Bob Park,
Dorothy Shimmin

Weddings

Julia Dawn Hall and Derek Thomas Gray
Muriel Dennett and John Ronald Sayle
Beverley Jeane Beighton and Mark Sean Broderick
Kate Louise Russell and Matthew Neil Cringle

Offertory

The offertory for March totalled £9,670.42 and was made up of £7,237.54 pledged giving and £2,432.88 of loose plate giving.

Thank you.